In life, in love, we need the takeover code, as much as we do in law.
Why?
You can have creeping acquisitions, but whenever your feelings for someone cross certain thresholds, it is best you make public announcements and where necessary, offers. Else, it might be construed as a hostile takeover attempt by the target who would then proceed to get you, and your foolish heart, into a lot of trouble.
While you suffer with the penalty, the target would get rescued by a white knight.
What can I say?